otrdiena, 2012. gada 20. novembris

Horse work abroad!


(Last week I realized that I have learned a lot about working with horses in general in these last few weeks. With my knowladge and experience I'm now able to see things I didn't saw before. So I decided that I could share some of the tips I have learned over the last couple of years! Hope you will find it usefull!)

More and more people are going to work with horses abroad. Some forced by financial difficulties some by a simple desire to try something new. What it really means,  whether it is for you, what to expect, where to find a good job and how to contact prospective employers are only few things to think and take care of before even getting in the plane. Not knowing what kind of job you want, aiming higher than you should, not knowing how to set your expectations can easaly leave you unsatisfied or even cheated.

You should definitely be aware of the reasons you are looking for job abroad. It will help you detune and find what the most suitable work is for you. For instance if you have money problems and you are more or less forced to go abroad to work and earn money you should make sure of how long time you want to stay abroad and what is the minimal amount of money for it to be worth while. Next you should also make it clear if you want to be a rider or a groom. A lot of people expect to ride when they start to work as grooms and are very disappointed to learn that in many stables you just can’t. If you decide that you want to be a rider, again, make sure you’re skills are appropriate. Maybe you should consider taking lessons before heading to future work. If you want to try something new or take some time off before starting to study it could be a great way to do that. When you are working abroad alone it really tempers your will and reveals things you never knew about yourself besides it can also bring a lot of contacts and some lifelong friends!

 Working abroad brings it’s all: hard work, long hours, fun and a chance to widen your horizon. To begin with employers are not always the kindest people, expectations are high. Depending on the job you might have to work alone and spend long hours by yourself or function as a part of a big team and learn to play nice with everyone. It is also important to note that every place you work comes with a different way of doing things, so you will have to be open minded. Therefore multi functionality requires being able to do what is needed at the moment from holding a broom to assisting a vet.
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What to expect is where most of the heartache starts. People often tend to wear pink glasses before they go. Some might think that taking riding lessons twice a week is not much different from working as groom six days from 7 to 5. There are people who go to work as a rider and even if they have jumped at home 1.20 m that they will get a lot of horses to jump and ride. Jobs vary but what remains the same is that you will always have to prove yourself. Expect most certainly that you will have to work your way up and that it will take time. No one just hands you his horse without testing your abilities, commitment and willingness to learn. Bear in mind that even though you are a good rider or groom there can always be people who just don’t like the way you work.

 The best jobs always are the ones you can get trough connections. It is easier to know for bought parties what to expect. But if you don’t have any contacts you can always visit www.yardandgroom.com ! This is the best website in my eyes to find you a job. You can search by countries, by disciplines, or some might even find you. They offer a way to contact employer’s trough email. You can always visit a homepages for different stables you know of and if they have free vacancies sent them a CV. The best way to get a feeling about the job is trough phone. You should always remember to be polite and use all the formalities. For some it might seem self-evident but frankly there are still people who start a conversation with “Hey you…”! Make sure your first impression is professional grooming or riding is a job as any other. When an employer considers you as a possible employee make sure you talk everything trough: work duties, your experience and what kind of person is needed, payments and contracts, time on how long you will work. Check out their homepage. Make sure bought parties are aware of everything and satisfied.

In BOLD! Make sure you and your next employer talk trough all the payment matters! When, how much and how? Keep in mind that contract gives you safety and a legal document to require you’re money. And if you haven’t received your money after one month don’t be naïve or scared to ask!!!

 When you have found your job and all the requirements suits you and you have to know everything you can possibly know pack your bags and good luck!

P.S. Please leave a comment if you found this information helpfull or you have something more to add. 

sestdiena, 2012. gada 3. novembris

Roller coaster

Dear diary,

My last couple of days have been full of "getting out" of house. Yesterday we went to a show nearby with our awesome stallion Dark Knight. Once again he proved how willing to win this horse is.
We came home only to repack the truck for today's qualification for Hernings stallion show with our 4-year-old.

But before my long, hard working today me and my best friend decided to visit Jomfu Ane Gade for their yearly Christmas opening. The street was full of people and it was only a little bit after 9 pm. ( In Denmark people fore some reason like to start part at 1 am and end well.. yeah..:) ) Christmas's treas, slutty and nice Christmas girls/dorfs, fake snow, live music and, of course, Christmas bear kept the street alive. I have to admit that I haven't seen anything quite like it.

I also run into a Latvian person who got in shock of how much of an English accent I have developed while speaking Latvian. He also had problems with understanding me speaking Latvian! Yeah, I actually had to translate it in English. ( Great! My high school's Latvian teacher would probably come and hunt me down if she knew how bad my national language skills have become)  But it was nice to meet people and once again stay up a little too late.

We got back early in the morning just for me to get an hour sleep before I had to get up to plate and prepare horses for show. I got another hour sleep in the truck on our way there.
Surprisingly I felt more alive than I expected I also were in luck since there was something to do all the time and very little stress. It was nice to remember my competition days where I was the only groom and we went with 4+ horses. However dressage is a lot different and I do have a lot to learn.... Which is what I'm willing to do:) I also got some new ideas for articles that others who just starts to the road to be a competition grooms might be interested. So more is comming up.:)

Now in my pajamas and with a real food in my stomach I will turn off my phone and give myself fully to bed.
For more information on how it went at the shows click Helgstrand dressage.


-Super tired but happy Zane :)

trešdiena, 2012. gada 11. jūlijs

Dear Diary,

What I have realized is that most of my posts, well okay, almost all of them are about being happy. How it slowly sneaked up on me. And I feel like I haven't been 100% honest neither with you who reads this nor with myself. Almost nothing in this journey of self-discovery "Just happened"! I have bad days too, painful realizations, kicks in the stomach, shameful experiences. Once in a while something incredible happened and it helped to set things in motion, but so those the bad things.
In all this time I haven't been writing I have been dealing with life's not so pleasant reality. I have been chasing the meaning of life or it was chasing me, depends from which side it looks. So I could confess now...
About the time I went to LV for my vacation and came back home and visited bank to find out how much money I had on my bank account (since I have to start paying for my driver's license) I had to sit on my ass and think about my life. For over 6 months I have been telling everybody that I'm thinking about going to Canada at the end of the year. That's what my 10 year old dream requires.
But to honest I hadn't really started to plan anything. Hadn't started anything or finished for that matter. Something always holds me back. I'm kind a like floating around, thinking that I have a goal to fallow. But do I?
A friend of mine told me that: "Canada it's not a matter of if, it is more like when!" It eased my mind yesterday when I was having a really bad day. I'm starting to wonder that if everything happens for a  reason- why am I still here? When I came to Denmark I came for a half a year and now I've been here soon for two. And in the meantime it grows on me.
Would it be wrong to want to stay longer? Wouldn't I betray my dream?

Emily

otrdiena, 2012. gada 3. jūlijs

Make the difference!

Dear Diary,

A while ago I read this book called " A Sister's Promise" by Karen Lanfaster where the main character has this dream about being an artist but she have never pursued it. She is married and has no children. When she goes to visit her husbands parents she learns that his mother used to be an artist but gave it all up to rise her son. When she talks about it with her husband he asks a very simple question that really got under my skin. "What is your excuse?" She didn't had anything to hold her back from her dreams but herself. She chose to never try.
It bothered me- this question. Isn't that we always make some kind of excuses for ourselves? I cannot ride grand prix because I don't have the horse, money, opportunity.. etc. I mean there is so many things we will not have in life. Nothing, after all, comes on a silver plate. Zig Ziglar have once said: "It's not what you've got, it's what you use that makes a difference."
We all have something to start with, maybe you know someone who has horses and need help, maybe you can go and work somewhere for a while gain some experience and later apply to your own work. I mean if you are in the horse world head over heels- then you have at least one thing to start from. Your passion. Take your vision, dream and make it your goal.
Question yourself! Why I'm not as good I wanted to be? Did I do that right? Was that the right move? And don't be afraid to be wrong. Ask yourself why and how I can make it better? What can I do next time to improve my, my horses, my stables performance. If there is something I have learned in these two years then it is that we all have opportunities. It's what we do with them that makes the difference.
I went running last week, I've been running for a while now and I got to my breaking point. The same 6 km I did just week ago were painful and as hard as it could get. But I made it- without stopping. Cannot remember when was the last time I was fighting for something as hard as in that run. Trust me I wanted to quite. But around the 4th km I realized that I will never make it if i will think that I wont. Did I wanted to make it? Hell Yeah! So I changed my thinking. I repeated myself over and over again: "You can do it! Fight for it! You want this!" And I did it.
What I want to say with it is that I used to be the flow. But to get somewhere- YOU WILL HAVE TO FIGHT for it!

-Emily

otrdiena, 2012. gada 12. jūnijs

Voyage

Dear Diary,

I didn't sleep well, had some sort of dream concerning blogging and my sister. Of course, I woke up with a headache. It was early enough to still manage to hate my next door neighbor for sleeping trough her awful alarm. Small pieces of a conversation came back to my mind. I took my phone- had to check! Yeah, my dream wasn't really a dream. Indeed my sister called me late last night; Don't worry I got back to her by calling 6 a. m. ( I devil in me cheered when I woke her up) Anyway the message was something like: "You should write a blog, I want to read something!"
It is funny 'cose yesterday I already wrote a post on my other blog. And yeah once again I haven't wrote for a while. I needed to get trough some things.
I've been wondering all day what it is I'm writing about, since it is and isn't about horses. And here is what I got:
On June 16, 2010 I took a flight to Brussels. That is where my journey started. Almost all of you have heard about backpack travels or at least watched "In to the Wild" ( I have to confess I saw it only few days ago). These kind of travels change you inside out, you meet people along the way and it is priceless, you learn something new. So this is what it is- my own ultimate backpack travel. A journey towards something I'm not sure about yet. I'll probably know it when i get there but why grooming diaries? Simple- my travel walks hand in hand with horses. It is a way how I travel around the world.
So maybe this is for those who longs to put themselves trough this kind of emotional, spiritual and sometimes mind wrecking journey! Or it is for those who have walked this path before and now sees the similarities. Or maybe you are horse lover to whom this is a lifestyle but who ever you are, I hope you like it and you will gain something from this.
Because my journay is not over... Not just yet:)

Bear with me!
 Emily (Zane)


Photo:Linda M

trešdiena, 2012. gada 25. aprīlis

Perfect matches


Dear Diary,



I was thinking about matchmaking today. In equine world there are many different combinations of matches. The rider and horse, the boss and employee, Groom and rider. We all want to find that perfect horse where it just goes. Frankly it doesn’t always happen therefore we have adapted- we have learned to do it anyway and somehow find a way. I’m not saying we shouldn’t but some pairs work together better than others and thank God for that otherwise we wouldn’t have marriages. What I’m trying to say is that this matchmaking goes pretty much for everything.
I have groomed for few riders and I have seen my fare share of horses to know that no matter how good you are there are couples who beats the forces of nature. What one can do easily other can’t. It reminds me of two young geldings we had few years ago when I still owned my horse and from time to time helped out my trainer. My trainer couldn’t put anything on one of them when I never ever had a problem and it went otherwise with the other gelding. I don’t think I remember one time I could get a head collar on that horses head- my trainer had no problems.
Today I was thinking how easy it goes for me today with my rider. Weather it is a perfect match or he is simply easy going and no one have any problem remains a mystery. But I know that I’m glad to enjoy it and I’m starting to get thirsty to get to some shows. I feel rested and waked up from the winter’s sleep.
And now you: What perfect matches have life handed for you? Has there ever been a horse only you can do something with for no good reason? A rider, maybe?
Picture of The Red cat (a.k.a.Garfield) at my old workplace;)

Emily

ceturtdiena, 2012. gada 12. aprīlis

We are family!


So this weekend is the Open day in Helgstrand dressage. For the last three days we have been scrubbing, washing and cleaning. We have gone trough to all the possible stages that a team can go through on its way to a big event that’s been held at home. I know it because it isn’t the first for me. With a different set of people I have went through endless hours of painting and cleaning and even flower bedding (And if you think that it is funny think twice I hated flowers for weeks). These kinds of events really bring people together- mold the team. Today I realized that I have the opportunity to work with one of the best teams in top level stables and see past the Professional veneer. Today everything was working like a ticking clock. I’m truly amazed- we are a more than a team- we are a family! :)